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  1. buckeye3107

    buckeye3107 Sex Lover

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    My wife wants to get divorced. I've tried to fix things with her, but things haven't been working out. She makes excuses as to why she doesn't want to be married anymore and it leads me to believe that she doesn't want to work it out. I think she wants to look for someone else or has someone waiting for her. It sucks, but this is where I ask if she doesn't want to work things out and if she's looking for someone or has someone already, would it be fine to do the same? I'm actually not looking for anyone or any relationships and to be committed, just looking for some fun. What do you people think?
     
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  2. Rixer

    Rixer Horndog

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    First things first. If she doesn't want to be married to you, what can you do but split up?

    Then go have some fun.
     
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  3. Tristero

    Tristero Sex Machine

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    I'm inclined to agree. You can talk about it more with her, but if her heart isn't into it anymore, there's not much to be done. It can be really difficult to break out of a marriage like this--even if it's unhappy, it has a kind of inertia of it's own. If it's truly over, I hope that you're able to get it out of your system reasonably soon and get on with your life. Good luck!
     
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  4. buckeye3107

    buckeye3107 Sex Lover

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    Thanks guys I appreciate the advice. we actually don't live together which was one of the issues, but she has told me her heart hasn't been the same. I think it's over for sure and I guess I thought I could have made it work, but reality is she doesn't love me anymore and I didn't want to believe it.
     
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  5. Suze3221

    Suze3221 Her Crankiness

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    Ask Baller for some advice. He's the relationship expert on XNXX. Just ask Cali. She'll confirm it to be the truth. :rolleyes:
     
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  6. N.E. Woman

    N.E. Woman More Spicy than Sweet

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    You don't live together now that you're having marital issues.... Or you never lived together?

    One person can't love enough for both partners. Whether she has someone else, or just wants to split up in general really isn't the issue. At this point, The only reason to go to a therapist or mediator, is to split up as amicably as possible.

    Move on as best you can, and find a new woman.

    Are there children in the equation?
     
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  7. mnguy2044

    mnguy2044 Sex Lover

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    ill tell you that when i was young my parents got divorced i thought it was the worst thing ever but i realized that it was the best for everyone in the family if she doesnt want to fix problems then just let her go find someone who is going to be there and love you and someone that is willing to work on problems when they come up. most likely she has someone waiting. id say just let her go and i know you will find someone for you!!
     
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  8. itiswhatitis

    itiswhatitis Porn Star

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    Good advice.... there is an old saying;

    There are other fish in the sea.

    You never can tell what awaits you...there lots of women out there who can make your life fun and enjoyable...why not give one of them a chance...just maybe you will make someone elses life fun and enjoyable also.:eek:
     
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  9. buckeye3107

    buckeye3107 Sex Lover

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    Marriage counseling is something we were going to do before getting married, but it was expensive. The only free marriage counseling was at her church and this guy wasn't focus on helping us out, he wanted to know where I stand with god and for me to be christian. There are no children and she actually wants children next year, but we're not financially steady at the moment. I told her I'm not ready to be a dad and I also wanted to wait until 30. She told me she couldn't wait that long and to her it's a good reason to get divorced.
     
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  10. aesopstails

    aesopstails Ridiculously Happy

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    If you're not looking to be committed, you've come to the wrong place. Everyone here has been committed at least once, usually against his or her will.

    If you're looking for fun, try Disneyland or karaoke.

    Good Luck.
     
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  11. Rixer

    Rixer Horndog

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    She is using you. Run, don't look back and what ever you do, don't fuck her again unless it's in the ass.
     
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  12. BrandiDelicious

    BrandiDelicious Luscious Lips

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    If you think counseling is expensive wait till you get divorced and see what that costs.:eek:
     
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  13. buckeye3107

    buckeye3107 Sex Lover

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    It doesn't hurt to try here, but I'm not looking for that kind of fun. Well, I know what you mean, but those that are committed, doesn't mean that everyone else in XNXX is taken.
     
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  14. buckeye3107

    buckeye3107 Sex Lover

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    I'm not worried about it since I know a place that can do it for free because of the situation.
     
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  15. aesopstails

    aesopstails Ridiculously Happy

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    Sorry - I tend to assume that everyone is fluent in "sarcasm".

    I meant "committed" as in "committed to an asylum" as in "we're all nuts here, welcome to the club".
     
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  16. buckeye3107

    buckeye3107 Sex Lover

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    Oh, haha okay yeah I know what you mean now. It's hard to tell when things are writen.
     
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  17. finakey

    finakey Amateur Suspended!

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    I had this old man tell me this once son you haven't lost her you lost your turn on the ride someone else turn you have two options get back in line and maybe you will get another ride or say fuck it and find a new ride to have fun on there is many new rides with no lines you make that decision
     
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  18. ErnestWorrell

    ErnestWorrell Amateur Suspended!

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    Daddy, since you and Mom are getting divorced, do you want me to start sleeping with you?

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    It's okay if you don't want to.

    I just thought that I would cheer you up by asking.

    If you let me sleep with you, I promise not to tell my girlfriends.

    I can keep a secret, but sometimes it's really hard to do that.

    For instance, if we starting having sex, then it would be almost impossible for me not to tell my friends.

    Daddy, is it okay with you if we have sex and I can tell my girlfriends?

    That would be easier than trying to keep a secret from them.
     
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  19. buckeye3107

    buckeye3107 Sex Lover

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    Got some laughs out of this. I've went to her over and over, but she pushes me away. Over the phone, no matter how much she pisses me off, I never hung up on her. She would always hang up on me and she would tell me she doesn't love me. Yeah I know, why keep going to her if she did those things to me? The truth is, I guess I had moments of weakness and couldn't keep away when others told me about what I should do. Well, it will be all in the past soon enough.
     
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  20. vegasmale2010

    vegasmale2010 Porn Surfer

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    I would say let her go

    if she does not want to be married let her go, she must of found someone that is feeding her stuff. is goin to suck for you the next months, my advice is dont stay at home hit the gym keep your mind busy, it works, go on walks or take up running anything to keep you active. you will enter what my friend calls stage one.. just wanting to be at home and all depressed, stage 2 is not feeling sorry for your self and starting to talk to other girls.. 3 is dating again.. i am at stage 2. The only diference is I called it off ater a decade of marriage, is hard and you will cry in the corner but it will pass, i also wanted to have kids but she would not get her self toghether, yes it was one of the reasons i called it off but there where more than one.. good luck man, with stage 3 comes traveling.. I am making plans to go abroad my self.. there is life after divorce.. we just have to find it.
     
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